Girl on the move

Within the next two years, I will be out on my own. It's inevitable. But there's a big issue. I have NO idea where I want to move. I look at apartments in all of the following four places and basically just confuse myself. Moving out is not something that will happen soon, but I like to be prepared. Out of these four, which would you pick? Either e-mail it to me, drop me a tweet, or (none of you ever do this) leave a comment. THANKS! :)

Option 1

Medium rent
Suburban area
Friends in the area
Awesome nightlife
Established life there
Second safest
Small gay community
Third favorite atmosphere
Expensive area
Expensive gas- Medium traveling
Small opportunity for personal growth
Overall rank (1 being my favorite): 2

Option 2

Medium rent
Suburban area
Some friends in the area
Mediocre nightlife
Established life there
Third safest
Small gay community
Favorite atmosphere
Expensive area
Expensive gas- Medium traveling
A lot of opportunity for personal growth
Overall rank: 1

Option 3

High rent
Urban area
No friends in the area
Excellent nightlife
Starting fresh
Least safest
Large gay community
Second favorite atmosphere
Expensive area
Expensive gas- No traveling
Most opportunity for personal growth
Overall rank: 3

Option 4

Lowest rent
Rural area
Lots of friends and family
Excellent nightlife
Established life there
Safest
Small gay community
Least favorite atmosphere
Inexpensive area
Inexpensive gas- LOTS of traveling
Absolutely NO opportunity for personal growth
Overall rank: 4